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Soirée February 6, 2010

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Fancy Nancy, meet our readers. Readers, this… is… Fancy Nancy. We hope you’ll love her as we do. Completely.


You can’t go long around here without knowledge of Fancy Nancy.

When the library posted a flyer announcing their Fancy Nancy Soirée, I knew I had the perfect opportunity to give it my best with my oldest.  You know- cause it’s been a while.  So I went all out.

  

I spent that afternoon secretly turning our bathroom into her dressing room, hanging a few of her dresses arrayed with corresponding accessories, hair options, a little body spray… It was a hit:

 


 

Here we are before departure:
 


I might be biased here, but she really was the belle of the ball- well, soirée anyway.

 

 

 

A special gracias to Ms Melinda, our children’s librarian, who not only planned the magnificent evening, but made the most amazing white cake I think I’ve ever tasted.
 

Thanks to my little bug for the lovely evening.

 

To everyoneelse out there- Au revoir…

 

Leisure January 27, 2010

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Perhaps the best measure of my mental health would be a survey of my leisure time.

I’m no astrologist, so I can’t declare with professional accuracy that the stars aligned this month, but I can offer proof that the red on my cheek bones is indeed a sunburn.

By the by… It shouldn’t go without saying that I completed more than one novel over the holidays (not to exclude mention of a little c jane), took a bubble bath, watched a new release, and actually met a friend for pie.

I even sewed some Christmas projects, tried a new recipe the other day.

It’s Texas, compadres, and my Garden is calling…

I shouldn’t forget a shout out to the step-dad. (Alton really does give the most thoughtful gifts.) Follow my feeds for pics of our new 7×3 garden beds- coming soon.

 

Legacy January 26, 2010

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Tonight, as we do for many “family home evenings,” we called Matt’s Mom in Utah so she could join in.

We had a lovely time.

And then my daughter asked, “Mommy, where’s your Mom?”

“My Mom died.” I still can’t politely say she passed away-

 

She didn’t, after all.
 

“Oh. Where did she die?”

“In a city kind of far away, called Dallas.”

“And did she die in a bed?” Oh I hope so. The truth is I don’t know. It isn’t a question I ever determined worth the asking.

Nut I just answered, “I don’t know, Sam. I think so.”

“Hmmm…so you weren’t there? Did someone else tell you she died?”

Jeremy, Tim (her friend), the Sheriff…

 

“No, honey. I wasn’t there. Someone else told me.”

 

I hate that Sheriff.
 

Mercifully, the questions ended, and Matt took my hand.

I wiped a few silent tears, and thought of the legacy of suicide…

Then I took a deep breath, and nodded- acknowledging my gratitude for the question Sam didn’t ask.

 

Rose Bowl January 8, 2010

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In 9 years of wedded bliss, Matt and I have watched about 4 football games together. That’s right, I said 4, all of them featuring none other than

 
 

THE HORNS.

 
 

He’s always touted his preference for actually playing a game rather than just viewing.  He even complained once when I wanted to watch the NBA playoffs.  I know!  

 
 

Before, he watched grudgingly, annoyed by my complete loyalty to a team made up of men I’ve never met.  He once actually cheered for the other team- OU, to boot, and I thought the patrons might throw him out of the restaurant.


Oh, the shame of that day is still too much to bear!

 
 

Since then he’s come a long way. Tonight his demeanor shows progress of such marked improvement, I have cause to believe The Rose Bowl 2010 marks the beginning of a new era.

 
 

Tonightmy husband sat in a position I imagine most wives observe, but that until now has been entirely absent from our home. There he was, leaning slightly forward, hands frequently gesturing in disbelief, despair, excitement.  Up he stood; down he sat, wandering in and out of the kitchen with various snacks.  Tears fill my eyes with pride even as I type.  Always a source of joy to me, Matt has again won my heart. I thought to myself:

He’s reformed!!!

 
 

Still, I have to admit, we must work a little on the lingo. By the 3rd quarter I knew this post must be written, and so without further delay, here is a list of things I overheard Matt say during the UT/ Alabama game:

  1. “Alabama is, like, ruthless. They’re like the lamanites

     

  2. “He lost his helmet! Have you ever seen anyone lose their helmet? Aren’t they, like, strapped on???

     

  3. It’s like volleyball. The ball just goes back and forth, from N zone to N zone.

     

  4. In response to my question after his 50th trip into the kitchen: Matt, do you realize you’ve been eating nonstop for the last two hours? He tells me, “I can’t stop! I just get so worked up!”

     

  5. Observing Alabama’s performance during halftime, he wonders aloud, “I think it would be funny if those cheerleaders switched uniforms with that marching band.”

     

  6. “I smell a disaster.” – A disaster, I ask as I raise an eyebrow in question?- to which he responds, ”I just get a bad feeling sometimes when they set up like that!”

     

  7. Are they allowed to rush every time?

     

  8. “Remind me if we’re ever passing through Alabama never to look those football players in the eye. Those guys are scary.”

     
     

 

Mr Sickley January 7, 2010

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I apologize for my tardiness with this post- As part of a series on “Atopic” afflictions, here is our long promised update that still isn’t current (think early last year, and you’ll have the time frame just about right). 

To start at the beginning, you’ll find the story as it unfolded in these posts: Sir Pukes a Lot Cont’d  and Sir Pukes a Lot- the original.

Here we go- 

Coming away from the doctor after Levi’s first allergic reaction to food (scrambled eggs), I didn’t understand the seriousness of Levi’s allergy, or the severity of his reaction.  I was under the mistaken impression that anaphylaxis is a label assigned only when a person’s throat swells shut, or they stop breathing, and it was only later I would learn that Levi’s reaction was anaphylactic which is also defined when extremely low blood pressure does not allow the body to carry oxygen to the brain (Levi’s reaction involved a great deal of swelling and extreme lethargy, indicating very low blood pressure). 
Unaware, I continued to feed him baked goods and other foods with egg and egg products.  I didn’t know his eczema that I was having to treat so often was being exacerbated by his diet, or that his chronic congestion was a sign that his body could be having trouble dealing with foods I was feeding him, or that his congestion was contributing to his frequent illness.   We fell into a pattern:  Levi would get a cold, and it wouldn’t go away; then it would get worse.  He would inevitably develop some sort of infection- sinus, ear, upper respiratory- and I’d take him in to Doc #2 ( Doc #2 entered the picture when we moved).  

Doc #2 was not actually a Doc, but a very nice nurse practitioner.  When we visited Doc #2 about 5 times in the first three months we lived in our new house, Levi got a new nickname: Mr Sickley.  It was during one of those appointments I expressed my concern over Mr Sickley’s skin (it was cracked open, and wouldn’t close).  Doc#2  was no doubt surprised at my ignorance, and taught me a new word: Atopic.

Only with this new word did I realize the scope of all things Levi- “Atopic” meant that Levi’s reflux, food allergies, and eczema were all related.  Atopic was what made our Mr Sickley so sickley, and as if that weren’t enough revelation for one day, the Doc had one more warning.  

Asthma was another atopic affliction.  As Mr Sickley had yet to present with asthma, I counted my blessings, and added it to the list of things to worry about later.  With this new revelation, we quickly secured a referral to an allergist, and hoped the specialist would lead us to the root of Levi’s troubles. We weren’t aware that research on food allergies still needs a few “pioneers,” or that the first round of tests would lead us to more questions than answers.

 

 

True to Form January 3, 2010

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I should probably save the excuses

but I’ve been using them to reassure myself…

 

Between the round of croup that invaded mid December, and a family wedding one week before Christmas, here is a list of things I meant to do, but never accomplished. I’m calling it my post-Christmas card. (Notice the family picture below) I’m sure next year, well, you know….

  • Prepare family photos as gifts for all grandparents (this one required actually taking a photo in time to send one)
  • Bake goodies for neighbors and friends
  • Print out a recipe to accompany goodie plates to neighbors and friends
  • Pot blog update for December
  • Visit some women from church and let them know I’m thinking of them
  • Sew blankets for the twin boy preemies who are now home from the hospital
  • Hem my neighbor’s maternity jeans
  • Organize our music downloads (why this was on my holiday to-do list is still a mystery even to me)

 

…Sigh…

 


Happy New Year!!!

 

For those of you who expected a post like this (and probably have your doubts about next year)- you can just
keep that to yourself.


 

Talent January 1, 2010

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Check out my December bell peppers. It’s frozen since, so the plants are no longer, but we did enjoy that last harvest!

 

The wrong video store December 14, 2009

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Some of you may remember a certain detour I made a while back when I visited “The Wrong Sister Thompson.” 

This time, I returned Night of the Museum not to the Blockbuster where we picked it up, but to the local Movie Gallery instead.  Matt, who is used to these sorts of escapades, promptly righted my wrong after a call from Blockbuster tipped him off.

I did feel assuaged, however, when he said Movie Gallery pulled my Blockbuster video from a cabinet holding many others, and asked him to sign under a long list of other names- citizens affirming that they, too, had lost their way…

 

Thumbs Revisited December 13, 2009

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There’s #3 loving that thumb…

Thumb-sucking is old hat around this place.  When Levi (#2) came out attached to his thumb, we made mention of thumb-sucking perks (see the original post here), but at our last dentist visit, we discovered the fleeting nature of thumb sucking bliss.  That’s right- the dentist gave us “the talk,” and said it was time to think about kicking the habit.  We wrung our hands thinking this was gonna be rough.

Rough, shmuff!  That kid was amazing, and we are now pleased to announce Sam’s success!  A friend at church (thanks again, J.) told us how the “mitten method” worked for them, so I gave it a go.  (I should mention that Sam was a surprisingly willing participant, and her commitment is probably unique.) 

A first, she wore the gloves 24/7.  Then we only used the glove for bedtime (and the occasional movie).  After just 2 weeks, the gloves were off, and the thumb was out for good.  We only had a couple of late nights, and I was shocked when she never took them off to sneak her thumb in.

So…if you’re anything like my friend Tiffany, recently discovering the joys of having a little thumb sucker (her article, Confessions of a Thumb-Sucking Convert, will no doubt brighten your day)- never fear!  Enjoy those extra hours of sleep, and when the time is right, a thumb-sucking deterrent that is right for your family may yet be found!

 

dead fish and other milestones November 27, 2009

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After this fall found us celebrating Sam’s fourth birthday with her first birthday party, the season offered up many more firsts.

Halloween marked our first in our new neighborhood. The candy here at home flowed out our bowl so fast I confess to recycling our loot from the church trunk or treat the night before. In the middle of it all Levi returned early, and half asleep to let Sam finish out the night with her dad (who hadn’t trick-or-treated this legitimately or this profitably since his own childhood).

Then we bought our fist minivan, and everyone cheered. The only down side is that transporting 3 kids under the age of four no longer qualifies as Mom’s daily workout.

When Eliza turned 6 months old, everyone walking breathed a little easier, and walked a little taller. She can sit up by herself, she started solid foods, and she laughs at just about everything Levi does. I feel like we’ve finally rounded the corner of “new baby” transition. Now if we could all tear ourselves away from our infatuated dealings with that adorable little baby, we might get something done around here.

As mentioned in the title, we lost our first family pets- all our fish but one met their end after our first tank cleaning a few weeks ago. We admit their passing was not well honored, but we did learn a few lessons, and hope to make amends in the future.

Finally, we just returned from our first family camping trip. Inspired by Levi’s latest allergic emergency, we decided to forego a traditional Thanksgiving dinner for campfire and a little fishing. All I can say is- why oh why did we not do this sooner? We had a great day!